Ratna Kanyaka Budi Utami
Nowadays women have the
same right as the men get in every level in this modern life. The women now can
get a good job and run their career very well. They are able to reach higher
position, look for many kinds of guy they want, pay the bill on time, go
shopping everytime and something that just easy to have. They are very
independent and tough so their thought are just like “I am gonna be fine
without a man in my life”.
Should women have target
to get married? There will be many different opinions. Based on the study,
nowadays women don’t really feel and want to get married because they already
happy with 5CS ; career, credit cards,
cars, condoms, and condominium. They don’t have to worry about the goal of
getting married. Indonesian women normaly
take a commitment to bring their relationship into the marriage in about
20s, it is very common in age 24-26 years old. In the big cities the things
about to marry are changing so fast, those are because of new lifestyle, new
perspective, and new age. Women want to achieve a number of purposes but some
of them rarely want to end their youth up become a housewife that just stay in
a house all day long, take care of their kids, wash dishes, and that’s all
about.
There are three
possibilities why women still being single and not choose get married very
quick, first they felt they have right to define their own lives, second they
don’t need men because they are financially and spiritually content, and they
don’t want to push themselves to get into married life before they are fully
ready, but those are not able to be generalized since several women want to get
a married life as well because they don’t want to end up being lonesome when
they are old.
We can conclude that in this new age women have numerous choices
to bring up their life and we may not give any judgement about that. We just
have to live our own life, because we never know what the future brings to keep
us alive.
Source : Summary from my discussion
article “All the Single Ladies” February 9 2013
1 Comments
Dear Ratna, please mention the source of your writing please. It is really important in order to overcome the plagiarism. Well, your writing is good. Please use the dictionary to check your grammar correctness (thesaurus). Well done dear.
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